Parshat Bamidbar

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 Bamidbar

May 26, 2011

22 Iyar, 5771

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In This Issue
Bamidbar
Marino’s Italian Ices

Bamidbar
Jewish geneaology

 

The pride of man is very fragile and one must be careful not to wound it. In fact, in this week’s Parasha, Bamidbar, we find that Moshe, the leader of the Jews, going the extra mile to preserve Jewish pride and tradition. The Sages called the book of Bamidbar ‘the book of numbers.’ It starts with a census conducted by Moshe and his brother Aharon. Rav Henoch Leibowitz z’l quotes the Ramban, who says that the Israelites gathered together by the Tabernacle as they were instructed by Moshe who received the commandment from G-d, where each individual presented himself to Moshe and proclaimed, ‘I am so and so the son and grandson of so and so from this family, and would conclude by stating what tribe he belongs to. G-d said to count the children of Israel with tremendous kavod and Moshe obliged. They passed by him nicely and orderly and were counted personally.
The obvious question is, why was Moshe commanded to greet each one personally? You got to be kidding; there are over 600,000 men!!! That’s a lot of hand shaking and Purelle. This action would be considerably time consuming. Moshe is the leader and an extremely busy teacher. After all, he was in demand, from morning to night, to give the Torah knowledge to the elders because he heard it firsthand from G-d. So, why was he forced to delay the teaching of our great Torah for hearing each individual’s genealogy?
It’s apparent from the sages that G-d commanded Moshe to do so because he felt the importance of enhancing the kavod of the Israelites; and this was vital. Furthermore, we deduce from the Torah passage something mindboggling, in which, G-d is of the opinion that the personal intro which each of the Israelites presented, was more important than Torah study. This was especially crucial in that generation. The spiritual impact of Moshe’s influence on Israel by the personal touch, was enormous and would be more effective than studying Torah, which within itself is considered very important. Through the counting, they would recognize their individual importance and the special uniqueness that each individual and their families possess; and therefore would enable them to perform to their highest potential.
Yours truly can bare witness to this feeling of family pride. There was a gentleman by the last name of Okilov, whom my father once invited to our house, who was an expert in family genealogy among Bukharian families in the city of Tzemarkand. His nickname was ‘the computer’ for his tremendous memory on this topic. During his visit, he was able to trace our family routes, of the Kimyagaroff family (our original name), nine generations to Tzemarkand. He painted a picture in our minds by some of the stories as to what kind of people they were. Some people take pride coming from a good family. Such is the case of my friend, Rafi Fouzailov, who also traces his family seven generations in Tzemarkand. The Fouzailov family was one of the most honored families in Tzemarkand and Israel. His father taught his children ‘don’t ever do anything to destroy the name.’
This feeling of family pride is exactly the message G-d wanted to convey to the Jewish people in order for them to achieve excellence; even to the point of sacrificing this precious time of learning Torah. Because He knew through feeling proud of your background, they will eventually come to the recognition of fulfilling the mitzvoth to the highest degree through learning Torah. This is the primary goal. One should not lose perspective of this message.

Marino’s Italian Ices
 marino's italian ices

Early last summer, my son and I were sitting at the dining room table, where I couldn’t help but notice he was eating Italian ices. A surge of childhood memories went through my mind, as I remembered sitting on my porch on a hot summer night, hearing Bob Murphy calling the Mets game on my transistor radio and eating my favorite flavor cherry Marino’s ices, similar to what my son was having. As he was half way done chipping away at the ices, I was anticipating him turning over the ices to get to the bottom, which is best the part. My friend Boaz calls it tadeegee (the burned rice or potato bottom part of the cooking pot that is left overnight and is the hot Shabbat meal, which is an anticipated delicacy.) So I said, ‘Hey boy, are you going to turn over the ices or what?’  I then went on about the different flavors that Marino’s carries. Although cherry was my favorite, I mentioned to him other flavors, such as watermelon, as well as others. He was shocked that they had Marino’s when I was growing up. ‘I didn’t know Marino’s is that old’, he said. A few days later my temptations took the better of me and I had one of my son’s cherry flavored Marino’s ices. I closed my eyes and relived my childhood as I took in a scrape of the ices with the wooden spoon. It’s delicious and thetadeegee hasn’t missed a beat!

Thank G-d we have the ability to enjoy food. It’s a gift to have the pleasure of taste; whether it’s a juicy steak, osh palov, or just a Marino’s ices. As appreciation of this wonderful gift that He gave us, we recite blessings. But one has to wonder, are we blessing for the delicious taste or are we blessing for sustenance? What’s the essence of a bracha – taste or sustenance? One may ask ‘who cares?’ What’s the difference if it’s for pleasure or sustenance? As long as the intention is there, just make the bracha.’ But one has to never forget lessons from history and learn from their triumphs as well as the mistakes.

During King David’s time, there was a plague and many died. David, along with his advisers, figured out the source of this devastation. The Jews were not making enough brachot, so he instituted ‘the 100 brachot a day concept’ which the Rabbis incorporated in our tefilah (prayers). Once the Israelites recited 100 blessings, the plague stopped. So brachot, besides being a thank you gesture, is sort of a protection. However, one may not abuse a bracha when it’s not necessary. Apparently, if one says G-d’s name in vain (and G-d’s name is in a bracha), he’s doing an averah (sin); one has to be careful. Presumably, if a bracha was meant for just pleasure, then a food intended for nutrition without an ounce of flavor, is not required. However, if a bracha is intended to incorporate both, then one would not be violating ‘excess bracha.’

An example of sustenance in which one does not recite a blessing is water; only when one is thirsty does he make a bracha; otherwise he does not. Perhaps it’s because water has no taste. There is no recitation for vitamins either. If someone has an IV hooked up, he does not recite a bracha. So we see that sustenance is not enough for a bracha. However, apparently, if one is ill and cannot taste anything, he is required to recite if he eats.  So too, if one is disgusted with a certain food, he’s obligated.

It seems like there are a few important concepts that we have to be aware of. First, ‘the normal way people eat.’ Here in the case where one eats without taste buds, he’s still required, as well as ‘foods people normally eat.’ If this is what society normally consumes, even though you don’t like it, one has to recite the bracha.

In conclusion, presumably one is required to recite a bracha for both, with the unique exception of water – unless he’s thirsty. May we all make 100 brachot a day properly and with tremendous pleasure, leading us to the highest level of appreciation for G-d who sustains us.

Furthermore, I recently discovered Marino’s mango flavored ices; not bad!!!

Sincerely,
Rabbi Avi Matmon
Spark of Jewish Experience

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